Frequently Asked Questions

Absolutely NOT. A BDSM Session May be considered sensual in many ways, but not sexual. If you are into BDSM, or fantasize about BDSM, a session will be psychologically and emotionally rewarding to you in ways that words cannot explain. If you are looking for sex, then I suggest that you call a prostitute…

Experience and intentional professionalism are the key distinctions between me, as a pro-Dom versus an amateur Dominant.

As a pro-Dom, I deal with a wide range of scenarios, situations, practices, and preferences — all unique to each individual client. This translates into a level of intuition that will allow me to lead you on a more advanced journey – beyond enjoyable sensations… beyond headspace… to a more profound experience.

As a professional, I also take pride in the work I do by becoming educated and skilled in the experiences I provide, and by giving the attention each client needs.

There are many ways to answer that, here are a few:

• Years as a Dom or Top: 21
• Number of Tastings Given: Approximately 600 as of 2024.
• Number of Session Given: Around 200 as of 2024. (Not counting my personal partners.)
• Number of Repeat Clients: Around 40 as of 2024.

• Denver Back Alley, 2018 - 2023
• Denver Naughty Ball, 2013 - 2020
• Taste of Kink at Denver Sanctuary
• Denver Talk Sexy
• Fashion and Fetish parties, 2012 - 2018
• Erotic Kink Festival, Scarlet Ranch, 2018
• Sin City 6, Las Vegas, 2016
• ...and more

Any and All. For the various types of play I offer, gender does not matter to me. I will happily work with female identifying, male identifying, gender fluid, and every flavor of the rainbow.

I am Cis-Hetero-Male. But this has no impact on who I am willing to play with, as I will not be seeking sexual gratification in a session.

I am 6' tall & 255lb. Blue eyes, long brown hair, and bearded. I have a large physique, with big hands and broad shoulders. I have 50+ years of life experience.

All pictures of the male individual on this site are of Me, and are reasonably recent, within the last 5 years.

Obviously the pictures of the woman are not me, they are of My slave-girl.

No. I am not here for on-line fapping. There is plenty of porn on the internet, go enjoy that.

An experience that you will not soon forget. Everyone is different, as are my sessions. I will take some time prior to going into “scene”to discuss your interests, fantasies and limits, as well as any physical limitations or problems that I should know about. I then establish “safe words” to insure your confidence and safety. Knowing your interests and limits, I can then develop a session that is specifically formulated for you. I stimulate your mind by not letting you know what is coming next!

There will always be some level of risk, regardless of how minute it may be. Those risks depend on the type of play you seek. You will be made aware of significant risks before your session begins, and there will be ways to manage those risks. I apply Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) and Personally Responsible Informed Consensual Kink (PRICK) principles to the experiences I provide.

No. Not if you choose to not be marked. Temporary body marks like welts and bruises may result from certain types of the play (i.e. impact or restraint), although I take care to avoid leaving marks if that is what is required.

Yes. Aftercare is pre-planned depending on the scene, and on my assessment of your composure following the scene. You may bring a designated AfterCare Partner if you wish. I will be contacting you after the session to check in on your mental and physical well being.

My list of interests are long and varied, I would say that spanking and plaid pleated skirts are at the top of the list. A longer but not exhaustive list is available here As far as MY limits, I will not participate in any activity that involves minors or animals, no “brown showers”, no catheters, and of course, NO SEX…

The phrases “Long Term” and “Personal Slaves” are the terms used to describe those submissives who are more into the BDSM Lifestyle, and desire a Dom/sub relationship that goes beyond the typical session-to-session relationship. It enables the Master and sub to mutually explore and expand the submissive’s limits by getting to know each other better, and build an even higher level of trust and confidence in each other.

I call the Denver-Metro area My home. Specifically I am located in Aurora, near Alameda Ave & I-225. I only provide the specific address to clients who have booked a session with me and paid the deposit for my time.

Absolutely. Extended time and overnight sessions are available for those who prefer to escape the reality of their day-to-day routine. It is not unusual for me to have a submissive who is visiting Denver spend a night in the Dungeon rather than in a hotel. Contact me for more information regarding extended time and overnight sessions.

Occasionally I will do 'out-call', coming to your location, but each situation is evaluated on a client-to-client basis. I rarely travel to other cities for my clients.

In either scenario, I require the submissive to cover all expenses.

I will bring a bag of toys, but I can not bring everything, including all the dungeon furniture, without significant cost to my client.

Yes, I schedule sessions with beginners and work very well with beginners. I am sympathetic to the needs of the novice submissive and allow them to learn what they truly enjoy, and expand their horizons. I treat your submissiveness as the fragile gift that it is. My slaves are submissive to me because they want to be, not because they have to be…

No, I began my journey as a Top: the one doing the evil fun things to others. In that education, I have experienced every type of toy and tool I use on my play partners so that I understand the type of sensation it brings, and the intensity of each toy. I know I will never experience true masochism, simply because I do not have that wiring that allows pain and intense sensations to become something more.

I am Dominant only.

You May contact me by using the Booking Page. When you contact me, I will determine if and when I will see you for a session.

My time is valuable, and so is yours. If I book a session there is preparation required and I have to block out that time, that I can no longer fill with other clients. This prevents time wasters, and ensures people are serious about their session.

View my prices here.

A nonrefundable deposit of $100 is required on booking a session.

If you cancel your session up to 96 hours (4 days) ahead of time, I will credit your deposit toward a future session.

If you cancel after that period, you have given up your deposit You will not get it back!.

If you cancel less than 48 hours before your session or do not show up, you will be required to pay the full cost of the session before being allowed to book a new session.

There is a big difference between serving me regularly and becoming my slave.

To become my slave requires getting to know each other and creating a deep connection.

If you are looking to get to know me and offer your service, start by booking a session and find out what it means to me to serve.

Privacy and discretion is assured for all the sessions I provide.

What occurs behind closed doors between us remains confidential. I will never discuss any person's session in a way that can be tied to them.

Recording devices are not permitted in the space where sessions occur, and there is no visibility from the outside.

Any chance public encounter outside a session, will be treated as if I have never met you before, unless you instigate conversation. I will not 'out' anyone

No information I am given will be stored online, and will be anonymized as best as possible.

References show you are serious about your session. They let me find out if you are the kind of person I want as my client.

Yes, once I have vetted your references, and received your deposit. I will happily provide references to people that consented to do so, if requested.

Most of my clients come from referrals, or have met me at an event, so it is often unnecessary.

I will not do so ahead of time, to prevent the wasting of my time and of the people who agree to be references.

References will be given in the form of a link to a person's FetLife account. If you do not have an account there, get one; it is the only way I am willing to connect people.

I do not take recreational drugs, and remain sober to ensure you receive a professionally delivered experience.

I do not engage in sessions while my clients are impaired in their ability to consent; this means no marijuana, alcohol or other drugs.

Prescribed psych meds are acceptable and I encourage their proper use.

If you are on prescribed medications that impact your cognitive function, we will have to discuss them thoroughly before I agree to a session.

I have STI tests done regularly. I have tested STI negative, with the exception of HSV-1 (oral herpes) of which I have never had an outbreak.

All activities are conducted with health safety as a top priority. Depending on the activity, there is discussion around this beforehand.

All surfaces and tools are disinfected after each session, and used implements are properly sterilized as needed. My hands are properly washed before each session as a given.

First aid supplies are also kept on hand if needed.

Surfaces and implements are cleaned with Clorox disinfecting wipes and 99% isopropyl alcohol. Barbicide may also be used as an intermediate-level surface disinfectant. Instruments are washed with antibacterial soap and sterilized with clinical grade materials.

Yes. I’ve had first aid and CPR training and keep the training up to date.